Ropes. (2011)

My elephant cycle

I read about a man who was in Africa. I'm not sure if it was leisure or work, but it isn't relevant.

What is relevant were the elephants he saw. Huge elephants being transported in a group from one place to another by a trainer.

The elephants were bound by a small rope tied around their leg. These huge elephants, large & majestic creatures, could have easily broken free from these flimsy constraints. But they did not.

The man was confused by this, so he asked the trainer, "why do these beautiful animals just stand there when they could so easily break away?"

The trainer said, "well, when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them, and at that age, it's enough to hold them.  As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never  try to break free." The man was amazed. These animals could break free at any moment from their bonds, but because they believed they couldn't, they were stuck right where they were. The powerful and gigantic creature has limited its present abilities by the limitations of its past.

Like the elephant, how many of us go through life holding onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? How many of us refuse to attempt something new and challenging  because of our so called mindset?

Your attempt may fail, but never fail to make an attempt. Choose not to accept the false boundaries and limitations created by the past.

Love, Love, Love (2011)

This is my favorite song in the whole world. It has helped me and healed me so much. I just wanted to share it.


Andrew Peterson - "Love is a Good Thing"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cKPF50T15w
Here is the video if you'd like to listen :)


It knocked me down, 
it dragged me out, 
it left me there for dead. 


It took all the freedom I wanted and gave me something else instead. 


It blew my mind, 
it bled me dry, 
it hit me like a long goodbye, 


and nobody here knows better than I that it’s a good thing.


Love is a good thing. 


It’ll fall like rain on your parade,
laugh at the plans that you tried to make, 


it’ll wear you down till your heart just breaks and it’s a good thing. 


Love is a good thing.

It’ll wake you up in the middle of the night, 
it’ll take just a little too much. 
It’ll burn you like a cinder till you’re tender to the touch. 


It’ll chase you down, 
swallow you whole, 
it’ll make your blood run hot and cold. 


Like a thief in the night, it’ll steal your soul, and that’s a good thing. 


Love is a good thing. 


It’ll follow you down to the ruin of your great divide, 
and open the wounds that you tried to hide. 


And there in the rubble of the heart that died you’ll find a good thing. 


Love is a good thing. 


Take cover, the end is near. 
Take cover, but do not fear. 


It’ll break your will, 
it’ll change your mind, 


it’ll loose all the chains of the ties that bind. 


If you’re lucky you’ll never make it out alive, and that’s a good thing. 


Love is a good thing. 


It can hurt like a blast from a hand grenade, 
When all that used to matter is blown away. 


There in the middle of the mess it made - you’ll find a good thing.


Yes, it’s worth every penny of the price you paid - It’s a good thing. 


Love is a good thing, - do not fear.

Wedding Bells (2011)

Weddings, a ceremony where two individuals who love each other commit to spending the rest of their lives together. A father meets his future son, he doesn't like him at first because no one is worthy of his precious daughter. A mother is worried whether or not she is ready, but teaches the daughter how to survive without losing her own identity when she joins herself with another. The importance of the bond lies in the balance of trust and survival, communication and interaction, emotional and sexual interaction. The man is in charge of being a leader in maintaining the balance between these things. They are all pieces in the Jenga game called marriage.

Life is your opponent. Life will try to take you down. Life will take away pieces necessary in holding the rest of your pieces together. You have choices to make constantly, and the balance that you and your partner share directly impacts decisions. Your past, life, impacts your decisions as well. Do you choose to rise against, or succumb?

Moisture (2011)

It's raining out, it's pouring in
My emotions are trapped within.

I need to talk, let's take a walk.
I cleared my desk, my head's a mess.

The coffee's there, scent wafts the air.
But there's no cup, no fill-me-up. 

There's no family, only silence.
There's no cooking, only booking,

Place to place, meeting to meeting.
Push away everything, it's only fleeting.

But I won't ask, I won't plead.
I smile and wish I didn't need.  

Dream. (2011)

If I had heaven's embroidered clothes,
Woven tight with gold and silver light;
Both blue, black and dark shewn bright.
The dark, the light and the half night.
I'd spread these garments under your feet.

Lowly am I that I cannot afford such a treat.
I, now poor, have only my dreams.
But I'll spread my dreams beneath your feet.
So tread softly, my dear, for you'll tread on my dreams.

American Grace review

         American Grace, written by Robert D. Putnam and David E. Campbell, found in recent poll a dramatic decrease in the number of Americans who self-identify as having a religious faith. A group referred to as the “nones” – those who have no religious faith, secular, went from 7% to 17% in the last few years.  

The numbers in the polls suggest that the more fundamentally religious a person becomes, the less trusting they also become. With those who are secular, the polls found they trust and are more tolerant in general of different groups of people.

             Are these findings cause for religious organizations to throw in their philosophical towel? Do Americans have to worry about a future of secularization? Maybe not, American Grace delves into a variety of topic areas. They explain the roles religion has played in the past in areas such as ethnicity, and gender, and how those same areas are affected by religion today.  If “American Grace” does anything, it gives thorough explanations for why demographic and religious groups feel a certain way in their variety of polls and vignettes.

            In this review I will show the changes in mindset, what predictions the book had, and a few of my own. Overall, I found the information on the nones informative, as well as the conclusions Putnam and Campbell found in regards to trust, pluralism and freedom of choice. The rest of the book, while also informative, seemed over-the-top and lacking a concise point in regards to the topic of religion and its dealings with politics.

Bill J. Leonard is a professor of church history at the Wake Forest University School of Divinity. In his review of American Grace he questioned the idea of the nones in more detail. Asking who they are and what their identity might suggest for the church. From my reading I have discerned that Putnam and Campbell credit the level of trust to the radical change in numbers.

Leonard suggests that the increase in the level of nones is evidence of America’s turn towards pluralism, an ideal he said that religious communities across the theological spectrum have accepted and implemented in other countries. Leonard defines new pluralism in regards to politics as, “a religious and non-religious diversity, so extensive, so widespread, that those who challenge it sound more like bigots than faithful dissenters.” In other words, religious rights and secular lefts have caused people to cease religious activity altogether.

Putnam and Campbell said, “because the rise of the new nones was so abrupt, this increase seems unlikely to reflect secularization in any ordinary sense, since theories of secularization refer to developments that transpire over decades or even centuries, not just a few years” (pg. 127). They were unable to conclude with certainty that the increase of nones is at least in part evidence of a “backlash against conservatism.”

Dr. Robert Cornwall- Senior Pastor of Central Woodward Christian Church- said a persons’ view of God will dramatically impact how the relate with other people. “We seem to have found consistent expectations about other people’s behavior and God’s behavior. If God loves us, then we love and trust others, but if God sternly judges us, then we sternly judge and distrust others.” (American Grace, p. 468-471).

Cornwall also said American Grace presents an overly optimistic of the American people. He said angry groups of people lead movements like the Tea Party, which have come to represent the majority. He said the problem is trust and it’s a serious issue, which he said gives religious liberals with progressive mindsets serious ammunition. 

            Another survey conducted by Gallup News, an international research publication, said in a study on American opinion on religion and its importance to people. The poll found 54% of Americans say religion is very important in their lives, whereas 70% of the same people said religion is losing its influence in American life. The summary of past polling shows that this is one of the highest fluctuations in Gallup history.  In 2000, 59% of Americans said religion was very important, where only 36% of people polled thought religion was losing its influence in American life. 

            Looking at the numbers from American Grace and Gallup News, a reader could deduct that the increase in secular lifestyle has caused a downward cycle in religious importance in the American day-to-day life. Putnam and Campbell say nones fall left-of-center politically and/or religiously, and parallel the increase of the religious and/or political right. The authors suggest that younger generations see religion “as judgmental, homophobic, hypocritical and too political.” (American Grace p. 121).

Robert P. Jones, CEO of Public Relations Research Institute (PRRI), conducted several surveys of various Americans with questions that revolved around politics in the theological spectrum. His findings showed mixed beliefs towards Leonard’s idea of pluralism. 

Jones found that 57% of Americans are opposed to allowing New York Muslims to build an Islamic center and mosque two blocks from ground zero, but 76% say they would support Muslims building a mosque in their local community if they followed the same regulations as other religious groups. 45% of Americans say the values of Islam are at odds with American values and way of life, while a plurality, 49 %, disagree. Another finding, the least pluralistic, said nearly 6-in-10 Americans affirm American exceptionalism, that God has granted America a special role in human history. Those affirming this view are more likely to support military interventions and to say torture is sometimes justified, a far cry from the findings in American Grace.

Thomas E. Rutheford, author of "Heaven Help the Single Christian," said the American persona, it seems, isn't worth much without the American obligation:  choice. This country was founded on democracy, even if the ways democracy was gained promoted violence, death and destruction. It seems ingrained into the American psyche that freedoms such as choice are owed, not earned. This belief plays into both politics and religion.  (Rutheford).

America was also founded on religion, like other countries, but unlike other countries it has held on to the ideals of morality.  In American Grace,  Putnam and Campbell found that in Western Europe and Japan, the favored non-choice in reference to religion, and were generally disinterested, where 30 to 40 % of the American population still attends a weekly worship service. Although there has been a steady decline in church interest, the findings in American Grace find that it would take a couple of centuries before America became as secularized as Great Britain, where only 5-8 % are regular service-goers. (American Grace and Rutheford).

 Sheena Iyengar cited in her book "The Art of Choosing," that people in strict religions are actually happier than those in liberal ones. She interviewed fundamentalist  religions (Calvinism, Islam and Orthodox Judaism), conservative (Catholicism, Lutheranism, Methodism and Conservative Judaism), and liberal (Unitarianism and Reform Judaism).“The presence of so many rules didn’t debilitate people; instead it seemed to empower them. Many of their choices were taken away, and yet they experienced a sense of control over their lives.” (Sheena Iyengar, The Art of Choosing, New York: Twelve, 2010, p. 28) (Rutheford). 

Robert Wright, in his October 2010 article titled "Religious Persuasion" in the New York Times, said that Putnam and Campbell had bad timing in writing their book at first glance. "Between the completion of their manuscript and its publication, the dispute over the Islamic center in Lower Manhattan erupted, followed by the ­Koran-burning controversy, and somewhere along the way a New York cabdriver was stabbed, apparently for being a Muslim." (Wright).

Wright made this assumption from the first chapter of American Grace, which states “America peacefully combines a high degree of religious devotion with tremendous religious diversity.” And it seems to render moot one of their main goals: to illuminate the source of this inter­faith ­tolerance. He said the book brings to light the struggles in interfaith tension that Americans face. (Wright).

Wright calls to attention that America has a history rich in religious strife. In his article, Wright compares American Protestants in their relationship with with Roman Catholics in the past as peaceful as present day Pentecostals in Florida to Muslims. Another example given was a Massachusetts convent that anti-Catholic rioters destroyed. Catholics caused a huge civil uproar in Philadelphia with rumors that they wanted to take Bibles out of public schools. Violence from these rumors alone led to approximately two dozen deaths and two churches were demolished. (Wright).

Putnam and Campbell go into detail about how each generation worked to smooth the religious and political tensions. In the '60s former president John F. Kennedy had to let Protestants know if was okay to vote for a Catholic candidate. The authors went on to say that in current times, Catholics and Protestants often belong to the same team, and,  "by the 2000s, how religious a person is, had become more important as a political dividing line than which denomination he or she belonged to." (American Grace) (Wright).

So where should Americans go from here? Are churches ready to join hands with others in a kumbayah ceremony with music and incense offerings? Should politics excuse itself out of the church? Putnam and Campbell discuss a variety of questions in the final chapter of American Grace. Overall, the book finds that people who practice religious activities are more willing to bend their doctrine to suit their more secular and religious-tolerant needs. Putnam and Campbell say, "most Americans are intimately acquainted with people of other faiths.” (American Grace). (Wright).

Along the same lines, Wright said that people who have evangelical friend have a more tolerant idea of evangelicals, and gaining a non­religious friend brings more tolerance toward the nonreligious. Wright said, "Muslims suffer from an additional problem. If most Americans don’t personally know any Muslims, they’ve seen some on TV, Osama Bin Laden, for starters. That may help explain why, though 54 percent of evangelicals say non-Christians can go to heaven, only 35 percent say Muslims can." (Wright).

Wright said there are two basic schools of thought on religious strife- essentialists and optimists. "Essentialists believe that religions have a firm character, grounded in Scripture and theology and doctrine, and that religious conflicts are thus deep-seated and enduring. The more optimistic view is that clashing beliefs aren’t the big problem; underlying the conflict, and driving it, are less ethereal and in some cases more pliable issues: economic grievances or insecurities, resentment of perceived arrogance, fears of domination." (Wright).

Putnam and Campbell fall under the optimist category. With their focus on communication and how it impacts the social and political context. Wright says, in that sense, the American Grace subtitle is subtly misleading.  "This intellectually powerful book suggests that religion per se is often not the thing that actually divides us." (Wright).

Floral Ramblings (2011).

So I had some wine and wrote a poem the other day. It slipped my mind until I ran across it Thursday. 

Being perfect artists and ingenuous poets, flowers have survived their decadence. 

And since they had to be distinguished from each other, they have symbolic meanings.

Pure and passionate names that harmonize in our minds an inspired and gentle calm.

They challenge the mind with violent intoxication with which they inspire us.  

So it is that certain flowers, a favorite bloom, are saluted by the receiver.

They take on form and color, by these delicious names, which deserve a poem, a novel.

So, knowing how sentimental I get about random things, this prompted a series of floral ramblings (i.e. the title - clever, I know). I also read through it again before I posted it and labeled things, which amused me for 10 whole minutes. 

I think they are the sweetest things God ever made, and forgot to put a soul into.  (<- girly)
My tattoo says the earth laughs in flowers, Thanks Ralph Waldo :) (<- personal)
I like flowers better than diamonds. (<- hinting)
Aliens from planets without flowers must think we skip with joy every spring. :) (<- awkward)

I don't have a preference for type so long as they are wild, free and spontaneous. (<- politically correct)I will be the gladdest girl that ever lived if I could smell a hundred flowers and not pick one. (<- old fashioned)
When the music stops and the dancers walk away the smell of roses still linger. (<- artsy)
Take me to battle, I'll fight a war. Surround me with flowers, I fall to the floor. (<- again, artsy)
The flowers at my desk remind me that there's more to life than the metaphysics of books. (<- big kid words)
I have faith that flowers enjoy the air they breathe, which is why they blossom so lovely. (<- Hallmark)
Flowers at funerals go against their meaning, hope is tomorrow and funerals have none. (<- cynical)

If flowers had feelings they would show themselves in perfumes. (<- girly)
If the earth and the sun made love, they would bring to life a flower. (<- awkward)
Plucking a flower from a vine sends tingles down my spine. (<- awkward)
Flowers seem intended for the comforts of ordinary humanity. (<- philosophical)

Flowers sleep all winter, approach near death, and reappear to bring comfort and laughter. (<-magical)
Please don't pluck a roadside flower, they bring me joy when I drive down yonder. (<- Kentucky)
When I have two dollars left in the world, I'll buy bread with one, and a lily with the other. (<-irresponsible romantic)
If you've never been ecstatic to see a flower in bloom in spring, your soul has never bloomed. (<- challenge)

Flowers are just as expressive as men or animals - some smile, some have a sad expression. (<- philosophical)
Give me a sunrise and a garden of beautiful flowers where I can walk undisturbed. (<- truth)
The flower is the poetry of reproduction, an example life's eternal seductiveness. (<- sexual)

Flowers really do intoxicate me. (<- environmental lush)
Flowers offer themselves and eloquently speak of Gods in the language of rainbows. (<- artistic)
If a daffodil is a footnote for the spring, a purple aster must be the asterisk for autumn. (<-grammar pun)

A flower is a poet's darling inspiration. (<- girly)
Food nourishes my body, flowers nourish my soul. (<- philosophical)
The flowers of late winter and early spring occupy a special place in my heart. (<-truth)
What would our world be like, how would our people act, if there were no flowers? (<- scary thought)
I really love that it's perfectly acceptable to dance around in the sun wearing wild flowers in my hair (<- girly)
Sometimes I think a fallen flower is simply the effect of an angel skipping around. (<- religious)

A rose bending in the rain reminds me of all the gentleness and its enduring. (<- artistic)

Flowers are loved by all people for the beauty of their character and mysterious meanings. (<- philosophical)

Flowers have spoken to me more than I can tell in written words.  (<- truth)
You can't be suspicious of a tree or challenge the ideology of a violet. (<- philosophical)
God loved the flowers and invented soil.  Man loved the flowers and invented vases.  (<- strange humor)